It gets tricky as some don't want to contribute to our hobby for 1 reason or another. Could ask for gift cards to favorite store or local b&m.
You mentioned before needing a herfador this seems like #1 thing should be on your list.
May also consider a journal if you want to take notes and do reviews?

Cigar art / man cave decor

guayabera shirts and/or fedora to step up your style while smoking.

Couple quick suggestions