I too had these grand plans when my daughter was younger. Her first boyfriend was very respectful. Could be connected to me on the back porch cleaning one of the shotguns first time he came over. Her current boyfriend is also very respectful. No I wasnt cleaning a shotgun first time he met me. I was showing my daughter how to defend herself against an unarmed attacker. He now goes shooting with me on the odd Saturdays I am off. Wish I could convert him to the hobby of cigars but no luck yet but as much as I hate to admit it. He is a good kid and treats my daughter very well. Maybe if he sticks around long enough I will win, but its been 2 years already.